Man Repeller

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So a structured long coat, a turtleneck and a pair of Sarong trousers (which is quote no good unquote according to Damien my bf & photographer) of different shades of grey that I am wearing.

Absolutely no revealing of any kinds of skin or curves, no jewelries at all, it almost seems only natural to go with a nude face and a neutral palette (when in doubt wear grey, by the way). I guess this outfit is fully qualified as a man-repeller, at least Damien thought so.

But hey, so what? Do I feel good in it? Yes! Do I feel comfortable in it? Absolutely! Do I care what other people think about me? Hell no!

So here’s the deal ladies, do not dress to please anyone (men or women), and do not dress to repel anyone, nobody apart from yourself is worth your while to dress up/down for no matter what reasons. If you feel like putting on some ‘man-repelling’ clothes, go ahead and don’t even bother caring what others will think. Because it’s only in the clothes one truly loves that one can emanate that confidence and sacred aura, which, at the end of the day, is the whole point of fashion and style.

一件简洁利落的羊毛外套、套头羊绒衫、纱笼式西装裤(摄影师大米形容这条裤子的原话是——不好看!),色调深浅不一的灰(不知道穿什么的时候灰色总没错)。

没有露出任何肌肤或是强调任何线条,也没有戴任何首饰,没有红唇没有眼影,一个裸妆面似乎成了再自然不过的事情,这一套搭配堪称“直男驱赶器”!

嗯,所以又怎样呢?无论是自我感觉还是穿着体验,我都十分开心,为什么要在意别人的看法呢?

想对姑娘们说的话就是:穿着和搭配都是最私人自我的事情,完全不需要为了取悦/烦扰别人而选择衣装。除了你自己之外,没有人值得你刻意花费心思去打动。如果我们选择穿紧身裙和高跟鞋,那是因为我们喜欢,同样地,如果我们选择穿中性化一点的裤装跟衬衫,也是因为我们喜欢。毕竟,在自己真正热爱的衣装当中才会释放出自信的光芒,而这,才是时尚与风格的真正意义所在。

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ALL PHOTOS DAMIEN PASSEMIER

coat: Uniqlo Ines de la Fressange (from last season, here is a shorter blazer version)

cashmere turtle neck: Uniqlo (grey is out of stock)

trousers: Max & Co. (from last season, very similar one here)

booties: Navyboot (I cannot find the exact model online but this is a very similar one)

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